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今思うこと

 職場の忘年会で、「今年一年を振り返って」というお題で、一人ずつ話すことになりました。
 その場で何とか考えてみたものの、いろいろありすぎて何とまとめて良いか分からず、忘年会の席ではうまく話ができませんでした。

 いま改めて振り返るに、多分去年と今では、私の内面も私をとりまく環境も、予想以上に変わってしまった気がします。

 この1年の間に、
 全く住んだことのない関西に引っ越し、
 母は軽度の認知障害で入院し、
 配偶者からの申し立てで調停離婚となり、
 ぴょろが思春期の難しい時期に入り不登校気味となり、
 いろんなことが次々と起きました。

 だけど思ったよりも混乱せず、今はしごくおだやかに過ごしています。

 なぜかというと…
 母親に認知障害が起きたことで、周囲がやっと彼女の発達や人格の問題に気づき、長年の侵入的な関係に終止符が打たれたから。
 配偶者の申し立ては、内容はひどいものでしたがそのことが離婚を逆にスムースにしてくれたから。
 ぴょろのことは、登校渋りがきっかけで本人に発達障害の告知ができ、京大病院で診断をうけるめどが立ったから。
 そして関西に移ったことで、師匠と再会し新しい仲間ができたから。

 一番辛かった時期に、ふと思ったのです。
 母親の病気は私を逆に自由にしてくれたのではないだろうか。
 配偶者やそれに関わる関係は、失ったのではなく手放すべきものだったのではないか。
 ぴょろは自分を知る時期が来ているのであって、彼の成長を喜んでいいのではないか。

 そのときつらさはなくなり、すーっと楽になりました。
 大変なこともあったけど、長い目で見てよいこともある、そう考えはじめて心おだやかに過ごせる時間が増えたのです。

 そこまでには、毎日瞑想したり、師匠から治療を受けたり、現状を受け入れるためにそれなりに努力したこともあります。

 その過程で、人は一人では生きていけないのではなく、一人では生きていないということに気づきました。
 周りに誰もいないのではなく、見えていないときがあること、
 そしてつながっていないようで、人は常に人とつながっているということ。
 それが、この一年を通して得た、最大の収穫です。

 
 

 

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本当に失礼な事を言ってしまうかもしれませんが、私がsanaさんがブログを再開されてまず感じた事は、離婚されたんだな、、ときっと息子さんがたいへんだろうな、、と思いました。それは直感的に思ったことなので、ご苦労されているに違いないと勝手に心配していました(〃TーT〃)うん

私もsanaさんではありませんが、この1年ブログに書いていない、大変な事が、山のようにあり人生の中で一番変化の会った一年です。辛いと思ったららきっと耐える事が出来なかったと思います。

これ全部糧にしてやる~と貪欲に一年を歩きました、矢も飛んでくるし、と手膳前から大きな岩が転がってくるし、もうだめか~とおもうと必ずダメではありませんでした。そんな大変なのに安らかな気持ちをもてた事に今感謝しています。

Give thanks to the LORD.for he is good.his love endures forever.

これは主人が肺がんに違いないと思ったときに浮かんだ言葉です。浮かんだ瞬間に彼は死なないと思いました。

こんな感じの一年でした(〃TーT〃)うん

これからもよろしくお願いいたしますm(__)m

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